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Powerful Coaching
For Couples in Trouble
And People Leaving or Recovering From Toxic or
Crazy-Making Relationships or Ready to Shift Their Dating & Relationship Lives

"Life is awesome!! I feel happy and grounded right now, maybe for the first time ever...and you're a big part of that!  Thank you!
~ Private coaching client, Austin TX

"I appreciate all the support you've given me in this year of change and growth.  It's amazing to look back at all the things that have happened in a year.  I feel like a much stronger person than I was this time last year... You're great at what you do."

~ Private coaching client, Madison, WI

Hello  Amber!  I wanted to wish you Happy Holidays and to let you know that I am doing GREAT!!!  You were so right about holidays being awesome without a Narcissist!!  Thanksgiving and my  birthday were both amazingly drama-free and the best ever!!! I cannot believe how HAPPY and at PEACE I am.  I truly had no idea how miserable I was until the smoke cleared.  There is zero chaos in my life anymore.  What a toll that took. Thought you'd want to  know how I'm doing.
~ Private coaching client, Savannah GA

Amber Ault's profile on the Gottman Referral Network
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I love supporting people in creating their best lives possible.

Through the wonders of technology, I work with people wherever in the world they might be. I keep my practice small and intensive, so that I can offer each individual, couple, and family with whom I work powerful, personalized attention and strategies for growth. 

Although I am trained and licensed in psychotherapy, my approach reflects a coaching model. Years of university teaching and supporting students shape my education-oriented, skills-based style.  In private work, expect warm, compassionate, intelligent support, clear and direct suggestions, enthusiastic encouragement, and powerful, honest guidance designed to help you achieve the goals you define and the life you design.  If your goal is to maintain a relatoinship with a disordered person or family, my goal is to help you do that in ways that are growth-oriented, harmonious, and fluent in the skills that social science confirms as helping relationships function well.  If your goal is to decide on whether to exit a toxic relationship, to navigate a break-up, divorce, or restructuring, my goal is to help you do that in ways that ensure your success, safety, and forward momentum.  

Here are examples of the kinds of people I help: 

  • Partners and spouses feeling trapped, stuck, and exhausted by their relationships.
  • Moms and Dads contemplating divorcing a toxic spouse and stressed about the impact on children --- both of leaving and of staying.
  • Adults frustrated with adult siblings who create friction, exploitation, or volatility in the family system/
  • Adults dealing with aging parents who exhibit symptoms of narcissism.
  • Parents in very difficult co-parenting situations.
  • Parents of disordered adult children trying to maintain relationships with their adult children and/or support their grandchildren.
  • Adults recovering from Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome and trying to make sense of invalidating, chaotic, sometimes violent childhood experiences.
  • Couples in which one or both partners are concerned about verbal or physical abuse, deception, volatility, meanness, or communication difficulty. 

I believe that your time is valuable. You seek out coaching because you want hope, relief, and progress in the direction of change sooner rather than later.  You're already suffering, feeling stuck in problematic patterns, and facing troubling questions. It is true that the answers are inside you already --- but sometimes you need someone to help you figure out how to listen to them, as well as some additional tools and skills to take action on your answers.  I would be delighted to be that someone for you.

My areas of specialization include:
  • Helping people leave and recover from crazy-making relationships if the relationship cannot be salvaged.
  • Providing support and guidance for partners, spouses, former partners and family members of people who behave in confusing, unstable, exploitative, verbally abusive, self-centered, manipulative, and generally crazy-making ways.  Some diagnoses associated with those behaviors include Borderline Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and Anti-social Personality Disorder.
  • Providing relief to people suffering with anxiety, panic, and depression as a result of toxic or crazy-making relationships.
  • Partners and spouses feeling trapped, stuck, and exhausted by their relationships.
  • Helping people reduce the volatility and invalidation in their relationships with narcissistic, antisocial, and borderline partners, parents, siblings, and adult children. 

Interviews with Amber

Listen to podcast interviews with Amber Ault about helping people identify and exit from toxic relationships.
  • The Wise Lesbian Guide podcast interview at Concious Girlfriend
  • The Five Step Exit podcast interview with Dick Goldberg

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What clients are saying

Thanks Amber! I feel lucky to have found you as you have really helped me get through this "growth period".  I have turned the corner and have been feeling happy more than not.
​You were a Godsend to us.  I am so glad I found you.
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